Why did I use so many words the other day?!
Simply see that you are at the center of the universe and accept all things and beings as part of your infinite body. When you perceive that an act done to another is one to yourself, you have understood the great truth.
I have shared this quote before…it merits repeating. With reference to subject/object, it can be said this way:
At the core of all life, the center of the universe, is all life, the infinite body. The subject and the object are one and the same. The subject is the object; the object is the subject.